time golek2 td ak tepikirla yg sbnrnye sronok naek bas ni, or at least, seronok ade pengalaman naek bas loncat2 cmni. ak rse time ak lalui dulu tu, xpnah pn nk rse sronok, dok menyumpah mcm2 ade la kot. yela kpla tgh sronok nk blk umah, tp tgu pye lame naek bas, xsmpi2 ag.
Cuba kte pkirkn bdk2 yg slalunya parent dorg akn amik dorg dr asrama cthnye, anta anak2 pegi blk skola, ape bezanya ank2 tu ngn ank2 yg mcm ak ni, yg g skola sume sdri. tp time ak skola rndah, abah tiap2 ari amik n anto ak.hehehe. crita psl abah amik ak g skola rendah dlu pn nti nk wt jgk la.hahaha
back to topic
Yes, parent yg slalu amik anak2 dorg ni mmgla parent yg penyayang, ak xnk ckp yg sebaliknya utk yg xslalu amik ank dorg ey. Ak dlu xnk sshkn parent ak dtg jaoh2 utk amik ak. so, bdk2 yg ade pngalaman cmni akn tmbh ag dorg pye daya ketahanan hidup di luar. tmbh2 plak yg dok asrama tu, dhla dok dlm asrama tu sumenye disuap, time cuti pn dijemput parent blk ke rumah..smpi umah ak xtaula kn. jadinya point kt cni, bdk2 remaja ni kdgkala perlukan msa jgk utk hdup berdikari berdepan masyarakat luar tnpa bntuan yg penuh. haaa..ak kluarkn idea ni atas dasar seorang pelajar asrama la ey. ak xlayak nk berckp sbg plajar skola harian sbb ak xde pngalaman tu. penting jgk mende ni utk ajr anak tu mcm2. wpon xdpt efeknye scra langsung, mgkin satu mse nti ade jgk kegunaannye.
ak xnk kate ini cara terbaik utk ajr anak berdikari, tp utk yg lone ranger cm ak ni, ak rase seronok bila dpt pluang cmni. ak slalu jgk tepikir nti nk travel dgn bas just wasting time n see surrounding.
when u can feel the shortness, u will always try to make it better. when everything is good around, there's tendency u are satisfied with it and no effort to make it better.
so, kpd parent2, SOMETIME its ok NOT to make your children life perfect 24/7, they need to learn.
I'm sure everyone will have their own thinking style, this is mine. lets sometime consider other style, if it's good, then lets do it.
till next post!
No comments:
Post a Comment